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Forgiveness

Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself. - Suzanne Somers

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(I’m not a guru, I'm not an expert but here is my answer to the following question...)

 QUESTION
"Why is it difficult to forgive?" 

  ANSWER

 Depending on where you are coming from..

…because you have not yet found it in yourself to love.. again
…because you still need time to heal
…because you feel the need to resist, resent and revenge
…because you still feel the pain
…because you feel it isn’t time
…because you are being enveloped with fear
…because you are scared

And until you forgive, you will forever be under the power of that person who hurt you.

Until you forgive, your path won’t be clear.
Until you forgive, you won’t find joy in your heart.
Until you forgive, it is hard to bless and be blessed.

Hard as it is, let us turn to Jesus. Let us learn from his mercy and love.

...and as we do that let us give ourselves the favor of forgiving ourselves first so we can be free.

NAMASTE.



BE BLESSED!

-day 44-
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  1. shalomidomJanuary 27, 2012 at 10:15 PM

    no hay de nada que perdonar ? but I will always say perdoname perdoname . That word Perdoname it means forgive me in spanish . To forgive is to let go and to let go is to forgive . We are only human, to forgive is divine . Sometimes it's hard to forgive but the greatest healer is time . Let the wounds be healed and the forgiveness will follow although it has scars to remind you of the hurt and the pain but it will remind you to be divine .
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  2. John and JoyieJanuary 28, 2012 at 12:13 AM

    Perhaps forgiveness is one of the most difficult thing to give especially if you have been hurt before. But how nice the feeling will be once you forget everything and forgive the people who did bad things to you!

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  3. ROMELOJanuary 29, 2012 at 7:21 PM

    without being religious... forgive but not forget... ;)

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  4. denJanuary 29, 2012 at 7:41 PM

    i agree.. forgiveness is difficult thing to give specially when the damage is too huge to overcome in a short period of time..nice post you have their..

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  5. enzoJanuary 29, 2012 at 8:30 PM

    What nice post to read...perfect way to start a day. FORGIVENESS...Enlightening and uplifting. I'm glad to have been here today.

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  6. Roi RJanuary 29, 2012 at 10:13 PM

    Forgiveness is a humble act that we can do to ourselves as well as to the person who hurts us. The pain and ill-feeling will be healed when we forgive. Let God be our inspiration to forgive and start a new life. I'm happy to have this post. Thanks.

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  7. Bacolod City GuideMay 28, 2012 at 12:33 PM

    True forgiveness will free you up of heavy loads and will eventually receive more blessings. Ask God to help you forgive if need to do so. Nice post!

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